Thursday 24 December 2015

As I get older....

Trying to understand myself and the changes in my body which had become more obvious day by day, I did some reading and jotted down  some pertinent points ....
 
Most internal functions  decline with aging. Even though most functions remain adequate, the decline in function means that older people are less able to handle various stresses, including strenuous physical activity, extreme temperature changes in the environment, and disorders. This decline also means that older people are more likely to experience side effects from drugs.  Some organs are more likely to malfunction under stress than others. These organs include the heart and blood vessels, the urinary organs (such as the kidneys), and the brain.

Bones tend to become less dense. Thus, bones become weaker and more likely to break.  Certain bones are weakened more than others. Those most affected include the end of the thighbone (femur) at the hip, the ends of the arm bones (radius and ulna) at the wrist, and the bones of the spine (vertebrae).
 
Muscles cannot contract as quickly because more fast-contracting (fast-twitch) muscle fibers are lost than slow-contracting (slow-twitch) muscle fibers. Regular exercise to strengthen muscles (resistance training) can partially overcome or significantly delay loss of muscle mass and strength
 
By age 75, the percentage of body fat typically doubles compared with what it was during young adulthood. Too much body fat can increase the risk of health problems, such as diabetes. The distribution of fat also changes, changing the shape of the torso. A healthy diet and regular exercise can help older people minimize increases in body fat.
 
The heart and blood vessels become stiffer. The heart fills with blood more slowly. The stiffer arteries are less able to expand when more blood is pumped through them. Thus, blood pressure tends to increase.
 
In the large intestine, materials move through a little more slowly. In some people, this slowing contributes to constipation.

(Source: older-people )
 
No  one can avoid the changes that come with aging.  I suppose I just have to practice healthy eating, exercise and keep a positive attitude. 

 
 
 
 

Tuesday 8 December 2015

Slightly plant obsessed


Over the past few years, I have become aware that I love to grow things. The nurseries near my house have become like my second homes. My garden space is limited but that had not stopped me from grabbing any plant that I may fancy. When I go to the nursery I tell myself "just one plant" but often enough I still bring home more plants than I have space for in my yard. I am also obsessed with propagating and multiplying the plants I already have, and had ended up with many plants of the similar kind. Yet another obsession is picking up discarded plants from the road sides during my morning walks,because I don't like to see the plants die. So now I think I have created a mini jungle in the little space that I have. Even the service lane at the back of my house has not been spared. Have
I become an addict?






Sunday 29 November 2015

One small choice and then another, and soon there is a mood, an atmosphere

“What I've always found interesting in gardens is looking at what people choose to plant there. What they put in. What they leave out. One small choice and then another, and soon there is a mood, an atmosphere, a series of limitations, a world.”
Helen Humphreys, The Lost Garden


Saturday 28 November 2015

She was stronger alone

She was stronger alone…”


“I'll never forget how the depression and loneliness felt good and bad at the same time. Still does.”
Henry Rollins, The Portable Henry Rollins

Thursday 5 November 2015

Let the Past be 過去就過去了

過去就過去了!

兩個人在一起是緣份;

不在一起也是緣份!

好的緣分給我們幸福的滋養;

壞的緣分給我們智慧的成長!

我們隨緣聚散,微笑向前,永遠美美的!~雨揚


Tuesday 3 November 2015

My birthday entry 2015

Let me make a simple entry on my birthday today.

At the birthday dinner hosted by the children.  Daughter not present because out of town

Birthday presents from the children and daughter-in-law

Some of the most important persons in my life today

My favourite flowers, the Brazilain Snapdragon

Just some selfies one day before I turned even older..he..he..
Some other flowers from my little hobby garden

Wednesday 30 September 2015

Appreciate the persons around you


Brief translation:

Appreciate the persons around you who nag you.
Having someone nagging you, correcting you and chiding you
Is actually a such a blessing.

Do not wait for the day when the nagging stops, then only would you realize that
actually the person is the most important person in your life.

Saturday 26 September 2015

My beautiful coral vine

Coral vine/ Honolulu creeper/ Mexican creeper 
Whenever I see this plant I will tear up although the event happened more than 50 years ago!

"WHO put this in the vase?  It is an ugly wild plant.  Throw it away!"  Then I meekly went in front  to the Teacher's table and took out the flowers from the vase, while being very self-conscious that 30 pairs of eyes of my classmates were looking at me, with some sneering away, or so I imagined.  The next day I was so ashamed to come to school that I pretended to be sick.  

The class teacher made it a rule that every week someone in the class would have to bring some flowers for the Teacher's table.  My classmates used to bring  bunches of roses, orchids, daisies, chrysanthemums, with some even bringing professionally arranged bouquets of flowers.  When it came to my turn I did not even tell my mother because I knew she could not afford to buy flowers for me to bring to school.  So the smart little girl in me decided to cut a bunch of coral vine from the bushes that were growing wild at  the roadside on my way to school. 

I wonder if the Teacher had ever realized that what she did was very wrong? Down the memory lane this is something that I have not forgotten. 

Monday 21 September 2015

My sweet revenge

4 hrsWe all did this when we were kids, didn't we ?
    Bina Philips Hahaha! Yes I did! Simple things like this made us happy!
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    Patricia Healey When I was young, I tried to do it, but I can't make it till today.. what a shame... Ha.. Ha...
      S.k. Rajesvari I try till to date I can't la...hahaha..
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        A'madudin Bin Mohd Arshad all? grin emoticon
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          A'madudin Bin Mohd Arshad all? grin emoticon
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          Suraya Woon Haha this really brought back memories for me. When I was little about 6 years old and staying in Sabak Bernam, our neighbour's son who was a teenager maybe about 16, used to frighten me out of my wits by doing that every now and then. After that I decided to learn. I practised on my own for many hours and finally mastered the technique. Then one day I tapped him on the shoulder when he was sitting in his garden.He looked back and yelled out in fright.I got my revenge.

          Tuesday 15 September 2015

          You haste away so soon

          I just could not resist recording the beauty of my Jasmine plant that bloomed so profusely today.  If only I could record its fragrance too.  Unfortunately the flowers survive only for 2 days.




          Fair daffadils, we weep to see
          You haste away so soone;
          As yet the early-rising sun
          Has not attained its noone.
          We have short time to stay as you,
          We have as short a spring;
          As quick a growth to meet decay
          As you or anything."
          -  Herrick, Daffadills

          Sunday 13 September 2015

          Thursday 10 September 2015

          Ou relationship to the planet need not be zero sum

          My plants

          “The single greatest lesson the garden teaches is that our relationship to the planet need not be zero-sum, and that as long as the sun still shines and people still can plan and plant, think and do, we can, if we bother to try, find ways to provide for ourselves without diminishing the world. ”
           
          Michael Pollan, The Omnivore's Dilemma: A Natural History of Four Meals


          Plants in the neighbourhood

          Wednesday 12 August 2015

          I despair

          Because I remember, I despair. 
          Because I remember, I have the duty to reject despair. 

          -Elie Wiesel

          Pain that cannot forget


          He who learns must suffer.
          And even in our sleep
          pain that cannot forget
          falls drop by drop upon the heart,
          and in our own despair,
          against our will,
          comes wisdom to us
          by the grace of God.

          Wednesday 29 July 2015

          A sort of glow

          The earlier years...when I think about them, even the not so great things,  I can't help feeling a sort of glow and a warmth in the heart. With my secondary school friends in Nirmala's house today.